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The 7 Steps On How To Stop A Divorce



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By : Dean Caporella    99 or more times read
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How to stop a divorce - it's a question which often comes too late. Why is it that it takes something as drastic as this for people to realize that something is worth saving? In this article, we are looking at infidelity and speaking directly to the person who is guilty of it in a marriage.

Yes, infidelity is just one reason a couple may divorce. But it's probably the biggest "killer" of love and marriage and if you have been unfaithful but still very much in love with your partner, then you are in a good position to save your marriage.

The simple fact you still love your partner and want to stop any hint of a divorce means you're at least trying to do something to save it. But be warned, the truth is you broke the trust factor between you and your partner and the road ahead will be a long one. In fact, chances are you may even fail in your attempt to get back on track.

Steps To Stop A Divorce

Here are seven points to consider as you try to keep your marriage together:

#1. Avoid the temptation to tell your partner that you can change. Your words will be usually taken with a "pinch of salt." In other words they more than likely won't be taken seriously. You need to make the change and starts with taking responsibility.

#2. Don't do anything that can further hurt the trust factor. If you did something to break that trust in the first place then don't do anything that will just throw further "fuel on the fire." This is particularly relevant to flirting. If you are flirtatious by nature then avoid flirting. This is such a vital step.

#3. Take responsibility for what you did. Avoid arguing with your partner whenever it's brought up. Believe us when we say it will be brought up. You see, it may not seem a big deal to you but remember, you smashed that trust barrier and hurt your partner. To them it's a big deal and they will now be suspicious of your every move, possibly forever. Time will help but if you are serious about wanting know how to stop your divorce then this step needs to be taken seriously.

#4.Avoid getting upset by not being trusted. Sometimes you could be doing everything possible to mend the damaged bridges you caused and it might seem like you're spinning your wheels but it takes time so temper any anger and accept it for what it is - a difficult situation which will take time to heal.

#5. Put yourself in the shoes of your partner. How would you feel if the one you loved and thought only had eyes for you suddenly strayed and was unfaithful? How would you want to be treated?

#6. This is a time for trying to understand why this happened. It will take the both of you to discuss what could have caused this problem. When analyzing it, you must always remember to take the responsibility. Avoid putting any blame on your partner. Remember, both of you need to be working for the same cause for any future happiness to occur and many times it will be up to you to lead the way.

#7. Finally, one of the best ways to learn how to stop a divorce is to seek out friends who may have been through the same situation. If you know of anyone who has and they are now back on track with their relationship, either seek counsel with them alone and ask for advice but preferably, try to talk together. That is, both couples being open.
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