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Develop Expectations To Learn How to Overcome Shyness



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By : Buddy Franklin    99 or more times read
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The way dating works men you will have to be the one to approach women. For shy guys this is not a task they look forward too. Instead of looking at approaching a woman as a way to make a new friend, get a girlfriend or have sex their minds instantly start turning to the worst possible outcomes. If you want to learn how to overcome shyness guys there is only one-step to take, changing your expectations.

My mother always used to tell me when growing up, life is what you make it and in my experience, this idea also applies to dating. If you expect women to be cruel, hurtful and rude than most of the time this is the outcome you can expect. However, if you expect a woman to be polite and honest about her attraction or lack of attraction too you then you will face this outcome. The reasoning for this is simple, your expectations are not just thoughts, your expectations affect how you choose to approach a woman and what you say.

A guy with low expectations

A guy with low expectations is really sad to watch. He wants to learn how to overcome shyness but is even unable to walk into a room with any type of purpose or confidence. He walks into room slowly hoping that no one will notice him, and he looks down staring at his feet as he walks. Usually this guy will walk towards dark areas of the room or a quiet corner where women are less likely to be able to spot him.

He will just sit around, darting his eyes up quickly when he spots an attractive woman but being sure to jerk his head away fast if she starts to turn in his direction. After constantly looking over at the girl and gathering up his "courage", he decides to approach her. He wonders over still looking down, or maybe starting at her with a flustered look on his face. He interrupts her conversation, walking right into a group of her friends. He doesn't' even bother introducing himself and can barely strangle out a greeting through his clogged throat, just barges right in and asks her to dance or requests her phone number.

The girl is probably more than a little surprised depending on her mood and how she feels about him barging over without taking the time to make eye contact, she might be nice and let him down gently. However, if his awkward approach let her feeling insulted she may decide to humiliate or embarrass him. What the poor shy guy did not realize is that his shyness is what ended up causing him to loose out. It had nothing to do with not being rich enough, not having nice enough clothes, not being attractive enough or not having the keys to a sports car! The girl did not fail to recognize him as a compatible match he failed to present himself in the best light by not learning how to overcome shyness.

A guy with high expectations

Imagine how much more successful the guy could have been if he had learned how to overcome shyness. Thereby releasing all his negative thoughts and going in with much higher expectations of his ability to attract women. He would have demanded attention as he walked into the room, striding in with his shoulders relaxed and a friendly positive energy surrounding him.

He would have been smooth, and calm as he walked in at a natural pace, not looking too hurried or too laid back. As his eyes scanned the room, he would not be shy about catching a girl's eye and showing he finds her attractive. This confident guy heads right towards the center of the room. Creating a crowd of people trying to get closer to him and becomes the main attraction in the room.

When he sees a girl he has an interest in, he looks her way and makes eye contact, searching for the signal to approach. Once he gets that sign he heads right over, looking confident and smiling to relax her. He takes her by the hand and introduces himself. He uses a well-researched pick up line to test out her attraction or starts right into a conversation. In only a few minutes time they are laughing and looking forward to a deeper connection. By learning how to overcome shyness, he gets her number, a date for the night or someone to wake up beside the next morning.
Author Resource:- Buddy Franklin is a dating advice guru. He recommends: Fear of Women, Shyness Meeting People, How to Overcome Shyness
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