Conversing with confidence is about men being able to speak to woman. As most guys have found at some point of time in their single lives it really is not that easy to speak with women. It can be hard to understand what topics a woman finds interesting and even if you do find interesting topics nerves, shyness even arousal can make it difficult for a guy to stay focused on the conversation and talk to women he finds attractive.
I cannot tell you how many times I had trouble even carry on a conversation with a woman that I considered a friend. The sad thing is the only reason I was ever in the friend zone with her was that I lacked the courage to let her know in the first place that I had found her attractive and wanted to date. For a while, I could pretend she was just a friend while we talked, then she would lean in wearing a low cut top and I would lose my train of thought and sit their sputtering while she gave me a confused look.
I think if you are here, you are here because you realize that conversing with confidence can help prevent you from spending the rest of your single life with regrets, because a lack of courage made you walk away or hold your tongue when you meet the perfect girl for you. I was never able to gain confidence in time to step out of friend zone with my female friend, but guys you have already taken the first step. You read this far, now let me tell you how to learn to converse with confidence.
Change your lifestyle
When guys have trouble talking to women the problem is usually the type of life they are living. When your life is settled into the same schedule what do you really have to talk about. Even worse when guys become settled into a routine they also start too lose faith in themselves and believe there is no reason a woman would actually have to talk to them. You can take up a new hobby or try something adventurous in order to shake up that routine and give you something exciting to talk about besides the normal topics.
Stay up to date on the activities in the world
If a women starts talking too you about a current event and you have no idea what she is talking about your main problem conversing with confidence could be because you do not expose yourself to anything that is happening around the world. When dating women you want to come off as a guy with a variety of interest and knowledge in different subjects. Open a newspaper or magazine and turn from the sports channel every now and then!
Pretend she is a guy
When guys communicate with their guy friends there are not awkward pauses in conversation, in fact the conversation tends to flow quite naturally. For some guys just talking to a member of the opposite sex makes them loose their cool and causes them to become easily flustered. The next time you talk to a woman try conversing with confidence by concentrating on topics you normally talk about with guy friends. Plenty of women are into sports and other issues that you might think are only topics of men's interest.
If you are "listening" to a girl, she asks you your opinion and you realize that you completely zoned out and ignored the sound of her voice, you should not be surprised if she storms off. To listen to what a woman is saying you have to find the woman interesting, if you are only approaching a woman because you can you are wasting both of your times. If there is nothing about a woman you find attractive you will be unable to sustain any type of relationship, even a casual one.
Get her talking
Sometimes the easiest way to start conversing with confidence is just to prompt a woman to discuss something she finds interesting. Now you just need to make sure you pay attention and respond to what she says when she pauses in conversation.
Once you feel you have enough knowledge to be able to be confident when talking with women you might still want to prepare for how you will actually use this information in a real conversation. Before heading back out to a club converse with your female friends, treating them as you would a girl you were trying to pick up for dating or sex. Be sure to ask your female friend for her thoughts on interesting topics, women definitely know what other women like to talk about.