Arousal, enticement, intrigue and sensuality these are the desires that your body language should arouse in a woman. For some guys though their body language seems to be sending out the opposite signals, causing revulsion, fear, disgust, annoyance and worst of all pity. If you want your body language to work for you instead of against you, sit back and learn a lesson or two on making body language sexual.
Let me take a second to explain what I mean by making your body language sexual. We talk through our body language everyday guys and we learn how to identify the mood someone is in by monitoring their body language. Yet a lot of guys seem to have no understanding of what their own body language is saying to women, unable to see that their body language was sending out mixed signals and getting them no closer to getting laid.
Stop allowing your bad body language to doom your sex life. If you are ready to get a girlfriend, are tired of the sex you are having, want to approach the beautiful exotic girls that you have never had the nerve to walk up to before then this information is for you. Go get in front of your mirror and be prepared to take the next 30 minutes learning what good body language is.
Work on your walk
How you walk is one of the first things a woman notices about you. If you walk towards her like you are marching in a funeral procession what kind of response do you expect to get? Make your walk tall, never rush around or act as if you are in a hurry. Think about how to show your attitude in how you walk. Truly secure guys create a presence with their clothing, attitude and walk all combining together to get women excited from the moment they come into a room. When a confident man walks into a room, he strolls in as if he is master of everything in it, a very powerful attraction, one that most women will be unable to resist.
Change your voice
Ever been called squeaky voiced, or had a girl mistakenly think you were a woman when talking on the phone? Then you need to implement this tip immediately to make your body language sexual and stop coming off as goofy. Let's face it guys there is a reason why the deep voices and silky smooth vocals of R&B singers are so easily able to turn on a woman, even able to call their music "baby making" music.
If you want a woman to be hot to have sex with you from the moment you open your mouth, find out how you sound. Ask a friend to listen to your voice or use a recording device to take a vocal sample. Practicing lowering the pitch and tone of your voice, working to make your voice sound more even and smooth when talking. With a little practice, lowering your voice to speak to a woman over the phone or at a club will be natural.
Be aggressive in and out of bed
When you see women, you want to have sex with, stop finding excuses not to approach. Women are not your enemy and most women are not going to reject you. A confident guy really does not even care if he gets rejected, he simply walks on over to the next attractive women in the room without missing a beat.
If you are able to make your body language sexual, you can also increase your performance in bed. Pay attention to what she is trying to say in bed without words, if you decode this secret speak you can give her the best sex of her life and be sure she will keep coming back for more. Don't be afraid to experiment no woman wants the same old vanilla routine all the time, by stepping outside your comfort zone and hers you can both learn a new way to please each other. Seduce her in and out of the bedroom, find out about her fantasies and tell her your fantasies in order to spice up your sex life.
Remember guys making body language sexual is not about making you change who you are or making you lie or deceive a woman. In fact, try a few of these tips and watch your confidence improve to the point that you may be able to get a girl or two to actually approach you, though there is no guarantee that will happen. What I can guarantee is that you will discover another more relaxed and assertive guy underneath when you shed the nice guy, shy guy or best friend image.