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Overcome Isolation and Shyness Meeting People



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By : Buddy Franklin    99 or more times read
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Shyness does not get the recognition it deserves. Men who suffer from shyness meeting people find that their entire lives are negatively affected by their inability to function in social situations. Overcoming shyness for most men can be a long and painful experience, some guys go so far as to spend thousands of dollars on expensive therapy sessions and become so isolated they loose all contact with the outside world. There is no need to let shyness become your entire live and in most cases you do not have to spend thousands of dollars and months in therapy to learn how to connect with others, there are popular methods that other guys have used to overcome shyness meeting people.

Look for friends wherever you go

Shy guys tend to have a limited social circle. If you are a shy guy who is lucky enough to still be friends with a group of people you have know for years, that's great. However, you should still take care not to isolate yourself to only these friends. You can only overcome shyness be being able and willing to meet and connect with people you do not yet know well enough to be comfortable around.

There are many great places you go everyday that can be used to help you make new friends and overcome shyness meeting people. The park, library, stores, coffee houses, your job and restaurants are a few examples. Anywhere there are other people to mingle with! There is almost no wrong place to make friends, guys. Because these are places you frequent there is nothing you have to think about to say, you can strike a conversation by commenting on how good the coffee taste, just saying hello or asking for a little assistance with finding an item you want to buy.

Even if these casual meetings do not end up getting you sex with the girl of your dreams they allow you to start talking and interacting with others around you without feeling pressure. Once you are able to naturally strike up a conversation with a stranger you have gained increased self-esteem and should start trying to date women.

Start with places that interest you

Men often neglect one of the best places to meet women. Clubs and bars serve their purpose but they are loud, sweaty and hot, not allowing guys who have shyness meeting people to appear in the best light. Think about what you enjoy doing in your free time, there are plenty of women who are likely to be involved in this activity as well. Join a cooking, dance or pottery class to explore an interest and meet beautiful women in a natural setting where you will be able to work with them and build up your confidence while interacting with them over a period of several weeks or months. Museums, local fairs and events, tourist spots, bowling alleys, sporting events, theaters, concerts even conventions offer you a chance to hook up with women who like the same things you do.

Once you locate women that are attractive to you don't feel that you have to rush into asking her out. To overcome shyness meeting people take advantage of the fact you didn't meet at a club or party where the competition is much fiercer. Forcing you to have too ask out a woman the minute you see her if you want to avoid other guys getting their first. At other locations allow the attraction too develop for a little while before making a move. Make sure to spend a few minutes making eye contact while talking to a woman each time you see her, be charming and get her to laugh. Then don't say anything else to her for the evening unless she initiates the conversation. By holding back a little, you can have a girl that much more interested in dating you. By the time you do ask her out the attraction is already full blown, quickly leading to making out and having sex.

If you truly want to overcome shyness meeting people, you have to be able to face rejection. No one wants to be dumped, be laughed at or made to feel like less than a man. However, their are no positives about allowing yourself to become isolated from everyone else around you. If you have ever heard the saying "no pain no gain", you understand that if you want to gain the pleasure of dating and having sex you have to be willing to put up with a little pain from being rejected.
Author Resource:- Buddy Franklin is a dating advice guru. He recommends: Fear of Girls, Shyness Meeting People, How to Overcome Shyness
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