Darwin said that only the strong survive, though he used this term to describe a species ability to stay in existence it is also the perfect term to describe alpha male behavior. In relationships, men who do not have the authority and confidence to pursue what they want are not going to succeed. These non-alpha males end up at the bottom of the dating ladder and they just do not turn on women.
Of course, alpha male behavior does not just develop instinctively in most men, unless you were the biggest jock in high school or the pretty model boy women may not have instinctively been attracted too you. Even the physical appeal of the high school jock and pretty boy start to fade once a woman gets to know them better.
No man can sustain a relationship on physical appeal alone, to become an alpha male you have to develop strategies that allow you to appeal to a woman's interest, being able to talk on a variety of different subjects is important. Alpha males know how to arouse using nonverbal signals and show charm and a sense of humor to get the woman hooked!
Alpha male behaviors do not just get you the attention of one woman in the bar; it catches the eyes of all her friends as well. A skilled alpha male even knows how to juggle 2-3 women at once! Knowing how to signal with your body signs of sexual arousal and rev up a woman's arousal too you alone.
The alpha male attitude does not just apply when dealing with women he is also a natural leader among his friends. Charging in and taking command in any situation, other guys look up to the alpha male, he is a success in his career and has the admiration of everyone he meets. You might be wondering who am I and how do I know so much about typical alpha male behavior? I learned it the hard way, through spending my younger years at the polar opposite of the alpha male, the omega.
An omega is a man who lacks the assertiveness and self-esteem that an alpha male has, and in my teens and early twenties, I was that guy. I can look back on it now and laugh, I remember hanging out with my group of guy friends, I was always the odd man out, hanging on and watching as my friends hooked up with beautiful women while I fetched drinks and sat at the table by myself why they were dancing.
I rarely had the courage to walk up to a woman and ask for her number, my turning point came when I asked out a co-worker. She did not just turn me down; she laughed and told everyone else about it. Imagine how I felt the next day, walking into the office and feeling the stares of pity from my coworkers. Right that moment, I vowed to make a change.
I quickly began investigating every program, group, book and website claiming to help guys develop alpha male behavior. Before finding the right product, I wasted a lot of time and money. Every program I found just offered basic information about what made an alpha male. These sites often offered the same information but did not provide any real advice on how I could learn to develop my own alpha male traits and ask out women.
Finally after a long search I stumbled across a complete "start-to-finish" approach that offered me real advice, videos and podcast to help me begin to recognize my alpha male traits and use them in the real world. My life completely turned around not only did I become an alpha male; I become a dating guru, using my training and knowledge to help other men avoid some of the dating mistakes I made.
Now my professional and personal lives are both in harmony thanks to my alpha male behaviors. I date as much as I want, have sex anytime I want and have developed the confidence I used to lack. When it comes to my dating life, I learned that a little selfishness is what sets the alpha male apart. By putting my needs first, I was able to connect with beautiful women. Even successfully getting phone numbers and dates from women I used to think were out of my league.
I only have one regret, waiting so long before developing my own alpha male behavior. Do not make that same mistake! You do not have to make a phone call, leave your home or enter in all your personal information. You can get started today and learn how to become a modern man.