Sexy lingerie shopping is something you should do together with a lover, husband or a girlfriend, and regardless of your how you feel, shopping for lingerie or any intimate apparel should be fun and erotic at the same time.
Shopping is a lot of fun regardless of what you are buying, but buying something that is going to give you and your partner so much pleasure is something that suggests that a sexual partner be there to give advice, fetch additional articles, or to see you in the lingerie before you buy it. There are some other tips that we want to convey and some are appropriate for on-line shopping while others work best when shopping in a retail store.
So how do you bring someone with you when you shop on-line? One drawback to shopping on-line is the very thing that makes it so desirable, because you can shop on-line in your underwear with a glass of wine and that is great, but unfortunately you can not try it on. That means the fun has to wait until it arrives, and further on-line shopping means what you buy will not arrive for days or perhaps weeks, but do not take this as a reason not to buy on-line.
Plan ahead particularly at Halloween, Christmas and Valentines, because last minute shopping is lots of fun. Many believe no one should buy Christmas presents until the last weeks or days before the Holiday, and although you find sales, sometimes drastic sales in the few days before the holidays and you have a deadline. The conventional wisdom is buy early before they run out, but that only applies to the popular kids toys, electronic equipment, and the latest video games that will run out. In any event waiting till the last minute when on-line shopping is plain risky as there is the mailing delay, invariably items are sold out, and you are left without that sexy lingerie set for those cold winter nights.
After doing your planning early, decide if this is a surprise. If it is, then you need to try and pick something she or he is going to love and it is going to fit, which is actually part of planning, but you will need to know her tastes in sexy lingerie or her tolerance of sexy lingerie. Some women have no or low tolerance of lingerie as they do not like it for any number of reasons. If your girl is modest or just does not like trashy lingerie, then it is not a good idea to buy it and force her to wear it. Sure, some girls just need to be convinced that they look sexy, but others do not like to wear it as they do not think they look good, too fat, too thin, not busty enough, or too busty.
You may think that it is crazy, but the important thing is they do not and there is nothing sexy about a girl who is wearing something and is unhappy about it and wants to get out of it, for the wrong reasons. If it is a gift, so be cautious about going too far out of her comfort zone, while you may be able to return it, be sure you check the return policies before buying sexy lingerie, because it is a Federal law that intimate apparel that is worn on or about intimate areas is not returnable. Also, there may be return shipping costs and a restocking fee, so try to avoid this by making that extra effort to make sure she will love it and wants to wear it and she is going to take if off for the right reasons.
Proper sizing is another huge issue when buying on-line and particularly if this is a surprise. Buy only from on-line stores that have telephone ordering rather than just on-line ordering in a shopping cart. While on-line ordering from a shopping cart is easy and convenient, speaking with a live person allows you to ask all the questions you need. Have your questions ready before you call in a general sense as the customer service person should be able to handle your request and do not rely on a live person that handles the call, but is going to give your inquiry to someone tomorrow, which is known as an answering service.